What Eid Family Traditions Looks Like
Growing up, Eid was always a magical time filled with laughter, family gatherings, traditional food, and celebrations. After moving to Switzerland, Eid felt quieter and less festive. When my daughter was born, I knew I wanted to recreate the joy of my childhood and make Eid a truly special experience for our family without forcing it on our children.
Here is how Eid unfolds for our family of four now:
Chand Raat Preparations
The day before Eid, known as Chand Raat, is full of fun and anticipation. I prepare Eid desserts while my husband decorates the house with the kids. Henna has always been a favorite tradition of mine, so my husband applies henna on our daughter’s hands and then mine. We love using stencils. Mine is usually done by him while our daughter’s is mostly hand-drawn by him.
Eid Morning Rituals
On Eid morning, we all dress in our traditional Pakistani outfits. My daughter and I add jewelry to complete the look. We start the day with a light breakfast of Eid desserts, take family photos, and then head to the Eid prayer. This is a moment of connection, gratitude, and reflection for our family.
Family Gatherings and Eidi
After the prayer, we meet my husband’s family for brunch. The kids receive Eidi from grandparents, uncle, and aunt. In the evening, we give our children the Eidi we have chosen for them, usually a toy handpicked with love. The rest of the evening is spent playing, laughing, and enjoying our new gifts.
Making Eid Meaningful for Kids
Eid is now becoming a day our kids look forward to with excitement. Seeing their joy and participation makes me feel that we are creating lasting memories and meaningful traditions for them.
Final Remarks
Eid is more than just a holiday. It is a chance to create memories, strengthen family bonds, and pass on traditions. By being intentional with rituals like Chand Raat, henna, Eid prayers, and Eidi, you can make every Eid unforgettable for your children.
